Fat sex is just sex, and if you’re a chubby girl, it can be even more fun. Sex is about what feels good for you and your partner, so you should feel empowered to try any position that works.
While some positions don’t work for BBWs, there are plenty that do, and adding a pillow or two makes them even more comfortable.
1. The Cowgirl Position
This position is a great way for a partner to stimulate the clitoris. The person on top can use their hands to reach around and massage the clit, while the bottom partner can wrap their arms around the leg of their penetrating partner and grind against it. This position also allows the penetrating partner to have a good view of their sex organs.
Another great thing about this position is that it’s easy for anyone to learn. Even a beginner can do it with ease, thanks to the straddle position and the fact that the clit is easily accessible.
Using pillows to prop up the hips can make this position more comfortable for people who have larger tummies and can help them spread their butt cheeks for easier entry into the anus. People who struggle with penetration can also try a wedge or ramp to make the insertion experience a bit more painless.
2. The Missionary Position
The Missionary Position may have the reputation of being vanilla sex, but it can also be mega-magical. The position “allows for a ton of skin-to-skin contact all at once, increases sensuality, creates closeness and connection, and can be combined with many different erogenous zones and sensations,” says Luna Matatas, a body confidence and sexuality coach and creator of Peg the Patriarchy.
The position also allows for deeper penetration without interference from a larger abdomen, which can be a major plus for women of all shapes and sizes. And like the Cowgirl Position, it can stimulate the G-spot, increasing orgasm potential.
Another plus for the Missionary Position is that it’s hands-free, meaning you don’t have to grip your partner or the mattress in order for it to work. That means you can also use your hands for other purposes, or even give them free rein to explore each other — if that sounds like fun to you.
3. The Butterfly Position
The Butterfly position, which is similar to the traditional Missionary but a little more fun, can be a great option for plus size women. In this sex position, the giver stands at the edge of the bed or table and lets the receiver rest their hips on his shoulders while they enter. This helps the giver achieve deep penetration without interference from a larger belly. Using pillows under the receiver’s hips can help the tummy flesh fall back, making access to the genitals even easier.
This is a great position for stimulating the g-spot and p-spot, as well. The giver can also use a variety of hand and tongue play to make the experience even more enjoyable for the receiver. Foreplay is important to build anticipation and create a strong connection with the partner, as this can help you both reach orgasm.
There’s a lot of content out there that suggests sex is only enjoyable if you and your partner are bent into contortionist shapes, but that’s not true. There are plenty of sex positions that work for all body types, and that’s what makes sex so wonderful.
4. The Missionary Position with a Pillow
The Missionary position is a great way to create deep penetration and stimulate the bottom partner’s clitoris. It can be modified by having the partner on top swing their legs over the other’s hips and thighs to create a bridge, heightening sexual stimulation. This is a good position to use if you aren’t comfortable in more intense positions.
Using a pillow in the Missionary position can add new sensations to the experience and ratchet up the friction. This is especially beneficial if you have a significant height difference with your partner, as it can help keep you both on the same level during sex.
Just like any sex technique, these tips are not a one-size-fits-all solution. It’s important to have open communication with your partner and try a variety of positions to find what feels best for both of you. And always remember to use lube for smooth penetration and reduced friction. Happy sexing!
5. The Cowgirl Position with a Pillow
Cowgirl is a great fat-friendly sex position that stimulates the clitoris, G-spot, and nipples and can increase orgasms. To make it even more satisfying, try putting a pillow or two under your partner’s knees to elevate them. This position allows you to rub your clitoris against their pelvic bone and rock back and forth, making it a little more like a sex see-saw.
Another variation of the traditional cowgirl position is Thigh Tide, which involves straddling your partner and rubbing your clit against their thigh. It also gives you a chance to wrap your arms around their leg and grind against them, which can be especially arousing for plus-size women.
Ultimately, these sex positions are just tools that can help you feel more comfortable and powerful during your sexual encounters. But remember, sex isn’t one-size-fits-all and it’s important to find what works best for you and your partner. It’s also important to discuss consent, protection, and birth control before getting in the bedroom together. And don’t forget to have fun! You deserve it.
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