Blow jobs can be a big turn on for both men and women. It can be a great way to build sexual tension, make your man squirm and even get him to ejaculate.
However, it is important to communicate what you are and aren’t into in oral sex. That is the key to a good experience for everyone involved.
How to give a blowjob
As you play with your partner’s dick, make sure you take the time to enjoy the sensations and textures of your mouth and tongue. Your lips and tongue are super erogenous and a great tool for oral sex, especially when they’re soft and moist. Try stroking them over the penis, or even licking the tip to stimulate and titillate. The tip of the penis is super sensitive and has a lot of little nerve endings, so playing with it can be extra pleasurable. Use your tongue to explore the ridges of his dick and the little bumps (the frenulum) that form on the underside of his head. You can also play with his member’s other erogenous areas by stroking, grinding, or kissing.
It’s important to communicate with your partner throughout the whole experience, and that goes for both the giving and receiving of a blowjob. If you want your partner to give you a better blowjob, or you want to try something different, make it clear and be respectful of their decision.
When you’re both in the mood, ask them if they’re enjoying the experience and what they like or want more of. It’s usually easy to tell if your partner is into it by their movements, but you can also ask them to go faster or deeper and see how they respond.
Preparation
In order to make your blowjobs erotic, you need to give your partner the right stimulation. Using your mouth is one of the most effective ways to do this, but it’s important not to go overboard. For example, don’t thrust into their mouth or push their head down unless they want you to. This isn’t just bad sex; it can actually hurt them.
It’s also a good idea to use different textures and positions during oral sex. This will create a sense of intimacy and build anticipation for what’s to come. You can try stroking their face and lips, licking their cheeks, and even rubbing their neck and shoulders. You can also suck their tongue and play with it like you would with your own [5].
Another thing that makes a great blowjob even better is a long, slow build up. You can spend an hour or more teasing and tantalizing your man, making him practically begging you to blow him. You can also send them dirty texts and sexy pics days before you meet so that they’re chomping at the bit when you finally see them [6].
Of course, if you don’t have the time to wait around for your man, then autoblow is the way to go. It’s not as interactive as a Keon but it gives you a realistic sensation of a real-life blowjob.
The actual blowjob
Blowjobs are a kinky pleasure, and like other oral sexual acts, they can be mentally thrilling. The owner of the cock, or cock, feels a special connection with the person who’s sucking on them, and the fact that someone else is giving them this pleasure can be really turn-on.
The physical sensation is also pleasurable. As a giver, you can create suction and friction in the mouth to stimulate the penis, and the lubrication from saliva can be particularly sensual. Plus, there’s the added thrill of being in control of the cock, which can make the giver feel empowered.
One thing to keep in mind is that a good blowjob can leave your mouth and throat quite wet, so you may need to take a break from time to time. It’s also important to make sure that your hands are clean, so consider washing them or using hand sanitizer before you start.
Mainstream porn might show blowjobs as intense, messy affairs that leave the suckers gasping and crying in pain, but don’t treat your partner like that unless you know they want you to be rougher. If they don’t, you can end up putting too much pressure on their head or causing them to choke. And even worse, you could accidentally graze their member with your teeth, which can be painful for both of you.
Post-blowjob activities
While licking, sucking, and kissing a penis are the most common erotic blowjob activities, there is much more that can be done. You can add stroking with your hands, vary how deep the penis goes in your mouth, and experiment with different shapes. If you are not comfortable, don’t continue – always listen to your body and stop when you feel uncomfortable.
Oral sex is an intensely pleasurable experience for both parties, and it can help to increase sexual pleasure in a relationship. Often, it can lead to orgasm and even ejaculation in the receiver’s mouth. It can also be a way to build trust, intimacy, and affection in a couple.
Many men find that receiving head is more exciting than penetrative sex. They may enjoy the feeling of being the focus, or the fact that they are giving pleasure to their partner. The latter is especially true for people who enjoy being submissive, as a blowjob can be a very arousing experience.
The sexiest blowjob position is probably The Standard, with the giver sitting up and the receiver on their knees in front of them. The subtle power dynamic of this position can be very arousing, as it makes the man feel powerful and catered to, while the woman feels like she is serving him. Other positions can emphasize the same arousal, such as The Kneeling or The Grasp.
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