If you’re interested in adding erotic hypnosis to your kink play, there are several ways to do so. You can work with a professional or use pre-recorded audio and video.
Either way, Chao says that you and your hypnotist (whether a professional or partner) should discuss what to expect and set soft and hard limits.
Deep Breaths
The practice of hypnosis—the process of entering a trance—can enhance sex and pleasure in the bedroom. It involves focusing on deep breathing and vivid erotic fantasies to increase arousal and sensitivity. This form of hypnosis has become popular thanks to adult entertainment and YouTube videos. However, it is a very real form of hypnotherapy and it has been used for decades to treat everything from anxiety to depression and chronic pain.
Erotic hypnosis is similar to self-hypnosis, and it can be done alone or with a partner. It requires a safe word and the hypnotist can provide a range of suggestions tailored to the individual’s preferences. For example, a hypnotist might suggest that the subject experience new sensations or intensify existing ones. Visualization and imagery are also common techniques. The hypnotist might ask the subject to imagine relaxing sights, smells and physical sensations such as a calming waterfall or soft music. Another technique is anchoring, which involves a physical touch or specific words associated with feelings of pleasure or arousal.
Some individuals seek erotic hypnosis to overcome arousal challenges, while others use it to improve intimacy in their relationships. It can also help people develop better body awareness and learn to feel more fully and deeply. Other benefits include heightened sensitivity, more balanced emotions and a stronger sense of mindfulness.
Dirty Talk
When someone is hypnotized, their conscious mind takes a backseat to whatever their hypnotist is telling them. That’s why erotic hypnosis is often so effective for people with kink and fetishism because they can drop their inhibitions and let their fantasies run wild.
But if you aren’t into that kind of thing, it’s important to note that hypnosis isn’t magic and doesn’t guarantee safety. Even if you’re in a trance, there’s still a risk that you could be coerced to push past your limits or experience sexual violence and abuse from someone who’s malicious.
That’s why it’s important to only experiment with erotic hypnosis with someone you trust or try DIY hypnosis first before exploring erotic hypnosis with your partner. And if you’re a Dom, it’s also important to think about the reasons why you want to hypnotize your bottom and what you’re hoping to achieve from that experience.
For example, if your bottom wants to try out a bottomless role play game but doesn’t have the self-esteem to do so, hypnosis can help them overcome their anxiety and become more confident in their ability to take charge. It can also be a good way for them to explore their desires, especially if they’re too shy to do so in real life. And that’s not a bad thing, as long as enthusiastic consent and respect for boundaries is always at the forefront.
Submissive Breaths
It’s important to remember that no one can force you to do something against your will under hypnosis. If you are adamant that you don’t want to engage in kink play or lose your inhibitions, a reputable hypnotist should not take advantage of you in this altered state.
While erotic hypnosis does involve sexual suggestion, the sex is not always explicit. If you are looking for a more “clean” approach, a hypnotist may suggest sensations that make you feel super sensitive or help you separate orgasm from ejaculation in your mind. This can lead to sensation play, which can be a great way to deepen trust and intimacy in a relationship.
However, if you’re looking for an erotic hypnosis session that’s on the kinky side of things, it can be more difficult to find someone IRL. It’s a good idea to do some research and find an expert in this area before you settle on anyone. This means asking questions, comparing their work and experience, and finding someone you jive with.
Depending on your specific goals, you may also want to look into hiring a Dominatrix or perusing FetLife to see if there are any Doms who specialize in hypnosis that meet your criteria. You can also try a pre-recorded video or audio file that you listen to alone and focus on your own experience.
Clean Talk
While many people may have a skewed vision of what hypnosis is, erotic hypnosis sessions can be very safe and enjoyable for both parties. Rather than a therapeutic approach that is used for treating physical ailments or addictions, erotic hypnosis focuses on pleasure and putting the subject into a more orgasmic >> state. As a result, most erotic hypnosis sessions start with the hypnotist and their subject discussing goals, boundaries, and safe words prior to getting started. This clears up any anxieties the subject might have and helps them feel at ease to fully surrender during their session.
This can also be a great time to get the subject’s input on what they want out of their experience and how to proceed, notes Riley. This gives the hypnotist insight into what will be pleasurable and helps them tailor their suggestions for each session.
Depending on what the subject wants to experience, the hypnotist may suggest things like sex orgasms, or they might create a story for their subjects to live out in their minds – such as a stormy pirate adventure where they are bewitched sex slaves. Other erotic suggestions could include making them feel more orgasmic, seeing their body parts as larger or smaller, and coming harder than ever before.
With a little research and a willingness to let go, erotic hypnosis can be a great way to explore new things in your kink bag of tools. Just remember, it’s always important to negotiate your boundaries and respect others’ boundaries and needs.
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